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A lot of mystery and speculation exists around the topic of "Side line girls" (dek sideline or เด็กไซด์ไลน์). Most foreigners have never heard of the word, others doubt their existence. Are there any in Thailand? In Chiang Mai?
Well, yes!
What is a sideline girl? The term sideline girl (or dek sideline) is mainly used by Thai guys to refers to a girl who earns some money on the side. This suggests that she's got another, main activity, which usually is study.
So, the prototype sideline girl is a university girl who is busy with her study but needs some money on the side. Mind you, not all girls who advertise themselves as sideline girls are real students, some are plain professionals, freelancers or what you want to call it. But a fair amount of sideline girls you can find as an Insider are real students.
This sketches the main difference between Thai sideline girls and other girls you can get for paid sex.
A full-time prostitute working in a soapy massage parlour is not sideline girl, a bargirl in Loikroh is not a sideline girl, and a freelancer you can find in Spicy or Zoe is also not a sideline girl, although some freelancers would like to advertise themselves as a sideline girl.
The perfect Thai sideline girl is a (shy) student girl who wants to finish her study and doesn't 'lower' herself to work in a bar or brothel, while she doesn't have the time or interest to work in a massage shop. It could also be a more spoiled university girl who doesn't want to loose face working in the sex or massage industry, but craves the latest iPhone.
Here's an example of a 'classified' in a special Thai website of a girl who wants to sideline herself to afford her study and modest cost of living:
Freely translated:
20 years old, looking for someone with a good heart, study at the government university
I’m a student, I’m studying at the government university. Cute, good manners, entertaining in speach, sincere, white skin and neat, small body.
I’d like to find someone who can take care of me, please only someone who is sincere, so that we don’t look down on each other and understand each other.
I’d like to find someone cute too with good manners and friendly.
I’d like to find someone who can take care of my monthly expenses on a long-term.
I’ve never ‘worked’ like this before.
I don’t want to do this short-time.
The monthly expenses I have amount to THB 13,000, nothing more than that, detailed:
- special college fee THB 2,000 / month
- water, electricity and internet THB 3,000 / month
- food and personal expenses THB 7,000 / month
- telephone expensees THB 790 / month
Overall, these are modest expenses and the girl seems serious, she doesn't want many customers, just one nice guy who can look after her during her period of study.
Another example:
This girl says: I'm a student. 100% real girl [so no ladyboy]. I'm available, you can make an appointment with me. I'm in urgent need of money so that's why I work like this. Really pretty, fair skin, I don't rush in the job, friendly. Looking for good-hearted mature men who can help me. Work locations around Jet Yod or Santitam or in the city.
Most sideline girls don't focus on foreigners at all, in fact they might have never been with a foreigner before, this is mainly a Thai world with Thai sponsors that completely goes past most foreigners' perception and experience of Thailand. Reasons why these Thai girls mainly have Thai customers is because they are too shy, because they feel more familiar with Thai sugardaddies or because they don't speak much English.
Also, Thai sideline girls like it when a guy takes care of them, they don't like stingy guys, and when it comes to girls, local Thai guys are often more generous than foreigners.
So you need a certain willingness to spend and a decent amount of Thai to enter the world of sideline girls in Thailand, but then you don't get the sloppy seconds you can expect in soapy massage parlours.
Besides the prototype of a Thai student girl who's a sideline girl in her spare hours, sideline girls could also be the girl you just met in a furniture store who goes home at 5 but doesn't make enough to make ends meet.
There's no official definition when a sideline girl become a regular freelancer, in a way sideline girls are freelancers although often they work in groups of girlfriends, but you will feel the difference with full-time prostitutes and low-class freelancers that you can find in farang bars and hangouts such as Zoe. Some young student girls don't want to sideline themselves and become Lolitas in a massage shop.
An embodiment of the perfect Thai sideline girl: cute, young and innocent
If you want to have paid sex in Thailand, you can find other venues but clearly there are differences in service, quality and your experience.
You can do it with a bargirl from Isaan who knows too much, speaks English too well, and doesn't have a nice attitude. You can pick up a freelancer in Zoe or Spicy who hangs out around Taphae to prositute herself as well. You can have a girl in a soapy, who's banged several times a day and does it all mechanically. Or you can call an escort girl, easy and clean.
The typical sideline girl doesn't do it full-time as a prostitute, she doesn't have a bargirl mentality, she doesn't hang out on the streets, she's more fresh and perhaps even a 'good girl' who wants to get her uni degree and needs your help to pay for college fees.
Side line girls can be awfully pretty or just average, just have a look at the average student girl on the street: most of them are cute to pretty.
Thai real student girl gets naughty at nighttime
Well yes, why not, but most likely you'll have to offer to support her and that may not come cheap, but that's the same for other girls. In the end, she's looking for a sugardaddy who can support her all through her study so she doesn't have to bother her parents begging for more money.
Out of all types of girls in the (semi-)paid sex industry in Thailand, trying to date a sideline girl is probably the best, better than bargirls, full-time prostitutes and karaoke girls.
As many fools trying to date bargirls have experienced, you can get the girl out of the bar, but not the bar out of the girl.
Well, it's probably much easier to get the "sideline" out of the girl in case of a sideline girl, because ideally she's into something else but she simply needs a bit on the side.
A sideline girl posted her story on a Thai forum (July 2016) in which she shares her experiences (source: Daily Mail). She describes how she entered the world of sideline business in order to pay back a debt, but stayed in after because the money came in so easily. One of her customers became her boyfriend and she now stopped working as a sideline girl. Her message in the forum was for other girls not to do this kind of work because you won't find love and may lose self-esteem. In total she worked in the industry for 6 years.
Reports say that the number of girls working as a sideline girl has gone up in recent years with some 30-40%.
Other girls sideline because they want to buy luxury goods such as brand bags
The truth is, allowing for all kinds of subcategories of girls besides sideline girls (freelancers, full time prostitutes, entertainment girls and so on), who prostitute themselves online, you can have sex with a girl for one time starting from a little over 1,000 baht to over 10,000 baht, excluding the costs of accomodation which can range from about 120 baht for the simplest love hotel to 500 baht or 1000 baht for a nice hotel.
We often come across guys who don't understand why they should pay over 10,000 baht if they can also pay a little over 1,000 baht. Well it's simple. You can have a nice Pad Thai noodles on the street for 50 baht. Chances are that you like it and you managed to get rid of your hunger, so job done. Most of the time, in Thailand it will be okay, sometimes perhaps pretty good, other times perhaps too oily, or too salty and once in while you'll get a food poisoning and you can't eat for 3 days.
You can also dine at a nice French restaurant with wine and spend over 2000 baht a person. The ambiance will be nice, the food could be better or perhaps it's not super, there is no guarantee. Most of the time, you won't get a food poisoning from these places.
So it's the same with girls selling their services online: perhaps the cheap one pleases you more than the expensive one, there is no guarantee. But the cheap one will probably do nothing but this and perhaps she doesn't check for STDs, she rents a cheap apartment where she accepts guys in a row, you have your sloppy seconds in dirty sheets and she's smoking and drinking in between. This is her way to clear a debt in a short time: by accepting 10 customers in a day, erasing it from her memory and move on with her life. It can be depressing to meet a girl like this, believe me, you''ll have to switch off your emotions to do it, even get an erection.
Or you have a delicate girl who is a famous influencer in Chiang Mai, goes around shopping, keeps herself tidy and sells her body once in a while for over 10K. The choice is yours. A Porsche can be ten times more expensive than a Mazda, does it drive ten time better? Perhaps not. If you just want to get from A to B, perhaps a Mazda is good enough for you.
Having said that, for most sideline girls advertising in this market, a typical going rate would be 2000 baht for one shot.
Her list of requirements:
Name: Nam, Age 23, Height 165, Weight 47, Chest 34, Measurements 34/24/35
Honey-colored skin, beautiful as in the picture, a girl from another province
who tries to earn money to support her family, very caring, feels like a girlfriend (GFE)
Service
Will shower with you, can suck bare
Can kiss, can tongue-kiss
You can put it in between her breasts, you can do 69, you can cum all over the body
You can do various positions, you can lick, she can massage you a little
Fee:
1,300 baht / 40 minutes / 1 shot
1,700 baht / 60 minutes / 1 shot
2,300 baht / 90 minutes / 2 shots
Free condom + Free room
Please pay before we start
She does not accept:
Crazy people, drugs / injections, drunk people, guys who have done surgery on their penis [* some Thai men do that, using filler or putting some shapes inside]
If she finds that you are doing something like this, she will confiscate the money and discontinue her services.
A few years ago, Chiang Mai's Sideline Industry was florishing. Models would fly over from Bangkok and do a whole series of guys, booked in advance by an agent. The market was too competitive in Bangkok so Chiang Mai was a weekend out for them.
Back then, the prices weren't that high, a thousand or a thousand five hundred could land you with a superhot girl.
Times have changed and some of the sideline industry has moved to the erotic spa businesses: for a lot of girls, it's easier money, just wait for the customer to show up, offer more services and perhaps make your own deal with a customer they like outside of office hours. Getting all you want through the erotic spa gives you a significant higher bill, though: typically THB 1,300 for the body-to-body massage and then the extra for the girl to give it all. (Of course, a next time outside of the shop, the girl will be offering more reasonable rates, which is why a lot of guys use erotic spas as sourcing pools for their sideline girls).
Nevertheless, there are still a lot of groups of sideline girls operating in Chiang Mai and you can witness it at the popular love hotels.
Example of agent in Chiang Mai on LINE arranging for sidelines
While some Thai sideline girls operate by individually, a lot of them work in small groups managed by an agent, who's often just one of them. When you contact the agent, she'll send you pictures and specs of the girls on offer.
Some agents don't send pictures, because the girls are too shy, in that case you just have to take the risk and ask for room service of two girls at the same time and choose the prettiest one. If the girls are not to your taste, you can simply not buy their services, most girls and the agent won't be angry because you didn't see their pictures upfront, but it's nice to pay them for transport and if you don't pick a girl several times from the same agent, of course they'll loose interest in you as a customer.
The best is if you get some good pictures and a full description of their specs upfront, and agree to meet at a specific place. In case you didn't see pictures before, typically the agent will ask you for your preferred specs (specifications). Local Thai usually prefer white skin and big breasts, but foreigners often pay more attention to face, overall body, attitude and detail, so that's something you need to communicate.
Sideline girl service is an industry in Thailand
Some agents send student girls fresh from class with their black-and-white uniforms still on, when they have a spare few hours in between classes, but often only in the afternoon. These student girls don't want to sideline in the evening because then they want to hang out with their friends. So you get fresh student girls in the afternoon, and in the evening you may get the type of girls you see working in a mall who are only free in the evening.
Conversation with English speaking sideline agent
The sideline girl industry is probably one of the most obscure parts of the paid sex industry in Thailand, because sideline girls don't operate from a shop, a bar or a fixed place. Police don't make much effort to curb down on this kind of activity and it's probably hard to stop anyway as there are so many student girls and young girls who need a sugar daddy. Especially in Chiang Mai, which is a university city with some 5-10 official and unofficial universities, there are so many university girls that it's hard to stop them from earning a bit on the side.
Some Thai sideline girls prefer to sideline a few times per month, others want to find one stable sugar daddy who supports them for several months or longer all through their study.
You won't find a company that sends over sideline girls, because then the police would easily trace it and close it down. Instead, sideline girls work by themselves, in small groups, always changing their phones, and also go by referral.
Some blue-collar workers know sideline agents by referral but often it's a bit above their budget, bank managers and businessmen are a better connected because they know where to call to entertain their relations.
Example of Thai website for sideline girls in Chiang Mai
This is how student sideline girls advertise themselves to get some side income
This is how student sideline girls advertise themselves to get some side income
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Md Asad Ahmed Posted on November 29, 2024 at 15:01:11 Can I get a sideline girl in chiangmai? Useful information | |
Timmy Posted on November 12, 2024 at 08:32:56 Looking for a friend for a couple days in Chang Mai. | |
Adisak Posted on November 10, 2024 at 11:41:15 - HAHAHAHAHA it's about 60-70% correct, but "students" will have a higher price than this(2k-5k for chubby, 3k-15k for skinny/pretty ***for 1-2 shot/overnight), and most girls will use "school uniforms" to promote, crossplay, charge a higher price than normal or deceive people who don't know this trick. - In a monthly relationship she'll set a limit on the number of times you can meet with her in a month(3-6 times in 1 month) and there is a high risk that you will meet a scammer girl. | |
Ian hoo Posted on October 10, 2024 at 11:45:23 Coming with my wife. Want to have men take my wife | |
Li Posted on September 14, 2024 at 09:50:32 Connect me pls | |
Chris in Thai Posted on September 13, 2024 at 06:19:19 Hello I am looking for sideline girl Friend, in Chiang Mai, could you help me please ? In Chiang Mai 9/14-9/19 18 to 26 yrs maximum, pretty good looking, out goers. | |
christopher_in_asia Posted on July 13, 2024 at 02:15:49 Hello I am looking for sideline girl Friend, in Chiang Mai, could you help me please ? In Chiang Mai for 3 months and after Vietnam Cambodge Laos and Thailand again. 18 to 22 yo maximum, and young student | |
MBlue Posted on July 09, 2024 at 16:18:48 We are looking for sideline companions from July 13th to 16th. It would be better if you can speak Korean. | |
D Posted on July 01, 2024 at 04:29:53 Looking for sideline companion for the next 3 days, 01/07/24 to 04/07 | |
Marty Posted on June 12, 2024 at 16:56:15 I live in CM, looking for sideline girl for company. My name is Marty. | |
Bobby Posted on May 25, 2024 at 04:25:43 ฉันเป็นหมอในวัยสี่สิบ ปัจจุบันอยู่ที่มุมไบ ฉันจะเดินทางไปเชียงใหม่เร็วๆ นี้ และจะอยู่ในประเทศไทยเป็นเวลาหนึ่งเดือน ฉันสนใจที่จะพบกับหญิงสาวที่อยู่ในวิทยาลัยหรือมหาวิทยาลัยเพื่อหาเพื่อนร่วมเดินทางเพื่อชมชายหาดและภูเขา เที่ยวชมสถานที่ดีๆ ในประเทศไทย ค่าใช้จ่ายทั้งหมดฉันจ่ายเอง โปรดตอบกลับด้วยเงื่อนไขของคุณ ขอให้เป็นวันดี | |
Winamp99 Posted on May 14, 2024 at 08:57:41 Im 31 yrs old, kind of fit, going to university. I would like to speak with someone going to university as well. Here for a little over 2 months. | |
SwissAmerican Posted on May 01, 2024 at 09:20:00 Teacher visiting CMU here for 1 year. I'm 53, very kind, decent looking. Just divorced. Want a good uni student or some girl in 20s or 30s who's not hardcore or hard prostitute. We can be companions, I can teach you and help with finances. I'm nice and smart. You don't have to be a superstar but a decent person, and we can have good relationship. | |
Kyaw Soe Win Posted on April 30, 2024 at 12:39:39 Wanna get 20- 23 ages girl who she makes Sex, date and sapa. So, she is sexy ,beautiful and speaking politely. | |
ARUN Posted on April 17, 2024 at 06:08:02 27 years old looking for a girl in near Map Yang Phon | |
Macho Posted on April 12, 2024 at 18:45:59 35 years old good looking guy looking for sideline in the next few days | |
Dan Jaz Posted on April 07, 2024 at 07:45:15 Generous & good looking mature male for sideline in Chiang Mai | |
Yaqub Posted on March 29, 2024 at 08:02:41 I'm going to next month April of 13 in benkok so beutiful young model type 20-26y college garl no baar garl full sarvice | |
Daz Posted on March 06, 2024 at 03:22:16 Tired of bargirls and looking for Sideline girl or agent. I live in Padaet in Chiang Mai. | |
Dan Posted on March 05, 2024 at 10:50:04 Live in chiang mai, hang dong. I speak English and german, looking for regular young girl. Thanks | |
Joka Posted on March 05, 2024 at 09:06:13 Great info. Where can I find an agent | |
Tim Posted on March 05, 2024 at 06:41:52 59 years old man, Thai speaking, looking for a cute and natual looking young student girl for relaxing massage, sex and funny time, full service. | |
Richard Posted on February 23, 2024 at 22:49:17 Looking for side line girl for now to this month 27th | |
lingamyo Posted on February 22, 2024 at 10:34:56 Good looking man in chiang mai in Hotel for 22-25 february. Looking for side line girl 20 to 26 yrs old collage student English speaking, no bar girl or professional prostitute please. Please let me the availability, age, per hrs charge or full night stay for relaxing massage, sex, sleep.. good attitude and no drama during stay.. all services... | |
Axel Posted on February 21, 2024 at 11:26:18 I am in Chiang Mai this weekend Looking beautiful young model type | |
Dong ha Posted on February 18, 2024 at 00:13:32 3월 10일까지 치앙마이어 있습니다 그동안 같이 할 사람을 찾습니다. 도와 주세요. | |
Anand Posted on February 10, 2024 at 14:39:01 I be in chiang mai in Hotel for 4 days and night on date 14 to 18 feb 2024, looking for side line girl 18 to 25 yrs old collage student English speaking, no bar girl or professional prostitute please. Please let me the availability, age, per hrs charge or full night stay for relaxing massage, sex, sleep.. good attitude and no drama during stay.. all services... Thanks | |
Pradeep Posted on January 31, 2024 at 14:19:51 Looking for sideline girl for a night | |
Canne Posted on January 27, 2024 at 08:22:34 Sideline girl - younger requested.. Marriott | |
Dams Posted on January 24, 2024 at 13:38:18 I need a sideline girls for me and my friends as we are visiting chiangmai for 2 days | |
Erol Posted on January 22, 2024 at 07:16:52 Your Line İD? | |
Marcus Posted on January 21, 2024 at 09:06:26 Looking for a friendly sideline girl 18-25 years old Chiang Mai, college student, some english language skill, for a hotel short time. 22th-26th of jan. | |
Tim Posted on January 12, 2024 at 05:13:39 Hi. Looking for sideline girls this month for dating and love hotel/swimming pool fun | |
Emerald Posted on January 10, 2024 at 11:25:33 In Chaing Mai now to 15Jan. Looking for a sideline girl. | |
Monk Posted on January 05, 2024 at 05:16:16 I be in chiang mai in Hotel for today 5th January night, looking for side line girl 18 to 25 yrs old collage student English speaking, no bar girl or professional prostitute please. Please let me the availability, age, per hrs charge or full night stay for relaxing massage, sex, sleep.. good attitude and no drama during stay.. all services... Thanks | |
Ben Posted on January 04, 2024 at 02:14:05 I be in chiang mai on 15 Feb to 18. Any side line girl, i can book for 4 night | |
TTM Posted on December 26, 2023 at 01:12:08 You don’t need to find an agent to pay for it. You can just find one on your own. I put in the effort & get a wonderful experience with a college girl who can not even speak English. Trust me, the entire experience worth a million, don’t let money kill the perfect girlfriend experience. That can be a lifetime memory for a mature man like me. | |
Kean chong Posted on December 09, 2023 at 09:31:17 How I contact with it? | |
Creampie Posted on December 09, 2023 at 03:39:11 Looking for an English speaking sideline girl for a week (12/10 to 12/15) at 8K/day. | |
Cjack Posted on November 23, 2023 at 05:13:03 Looking for attractive intelligent girl with good sense of humor and open mind. I am a kind And generous older man here for three weeks | |
I WILL BE IN CHIANGMAI 12-17 NOV 2023 Posted on November 09, 2023 at 08:10:20 MASSAGE WITH HAPPY ENDING OR SEX WITH SIDELINE | |
mohamad Posted on October 24, 2023 at 08:16:28 im going to chiangmai in 2 weeks time.appreciate if you can introduce sideline girls | |
Kenneth Posted on October 18, 2023 at 10:04:33 If you pay for a CML premium membership you will have access to a list Line IDs of supposed sideline girls in Chiang Mai. Be advised though that the list is basically useless because it obviously hasn't been updated for years as 80-90% of the Line IDs are no longer valid and many that are still valid the girls are no longer working. Don't bother wasting your time with the list that adds zero value to a premium membership. | |
John Posted on October 05, 2023 at 11:27:19 Wanted to find our more | |
Doug Posted on July 26, 2023 at 10:26:50 Any sideline girls available today in Chiang Mai. Come to my nice hotel for an hour. | |
Marty Posted on July 22, 2023 at 11:00:07 I am looking for a sideline girl tonight CM. | |
Aaron McDonald Posted on July 16, 2023 at 20:18:25 I’m looking for Sideline girl when I come visit Nov 27 and check out in 28. Please holla at me if you want to meet in evening. | |
Alex Posted on May 15, 2023 at 18:44:52 I’m in Chiang Mai now and I will stay in Thailand for a month. I am looking for a side line 18 years old. Do you have recommandation? Thanks | |
Sun Posted on May 12, 2023 at 19:23:26 I will be in Chiang Mai 25th & 26th May. Any girl slim and cute ??? | |
esler Posted on May 03, 2023 at 09:46:21 Best way in my experience is to use Twitter, you will get quite a few Uni girls looking for a quick baht. It's also a good way to find a girl looking for a sugar daddy. |
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