DATING A FOREIGNER BY THAI LADIES - PART 1
Have you ever wondered why so many Thai girls like to date foreign men? Why women married to a foreign husband seem happier?
It's not just because often their children are cute and beautiful.
Is it better to date a foreigner? Is it better for you? How to avoid problems when dating a foreigner? How to know which foreigner is good for you?
For Thai women, it’s important is to find a partner who can understand the needs of a Thai lady and who can understand Thai culture.
Thai men share the same Thai culture, so they can understand Thai women better, but some Thai habits nowadays are not so great: drinking, womanizing, domestic violence, and wasting money, for example.
If you partner with a foreigner there is a challenge to work out cultural differences. However, in general, foreigners are financially more secure and can better provide for Thai women. Also, many foreigners don't have the same bad habits you find with Thai men.
So if you are able to overcome cultural differences, a relationship with a foreigner can be quite attractive for Thai ladies.
If you are reading through this website, you probably already had some experience with a relationship with a Thai man. With Thai men, we have the advantage that we share both language and culture, because we were all born here and live here.
But, even though you and your Thai boyfriend speak the same language, maybe you don’t really understand each other and so actually you don’t speak the same language: he is thinking his own way or he resorts to bad habits, such drinking, smoking and womanizing, and you are left alone and disappointed.
So language and culture are important, but more important are sincerity and good habits.
Many Thai girls change their preference after being disappointed in a relationship with a Thai boyfriend. Some turn to become lesbian or go with a tomboy. Others discover the advantage of dating a foreign boyfriend or partner.
What kind of characteristics can you find more easily in foreigners than in Thai guys?
Although infidelity happens everywhere, it's probably fair to say that in general, foreigners from developed countries are more loyal than Thai men. This is due to culture and also due to lifestyle and society. In many Western countries, society is home-centered, which makes it practically more difficult and ethically not so appreciated to have affairs.
In Thailand, it's much more common and more accepted to have an affair, although it's still not something you'd tell your friends.
Foreigners can show more gentlemen-like behaviour than Thai guys. How many times a Thai man has opened the door for you, saying: ‘Ladies first’? Gentlemen behavior is virtually absent in Thai culture, but it is more common in some foreign cultures, especially with foreigners who are more educated in manners. Gentlemen take care of a lady, see to her needs, respect her and speak politely to her. Gentlemen do not talk rudely or hit the lady.
Foreigners are often more of family man than Thai men. Not many foreign men will walk away from their child with a Thai women, but the cases of Thai men leaving their wife and kid behind are widespread everywhere in Thailand. Thai women taking care of the kid alone are sometimes more common than a true family taking care of the kids.
Most foreign men having a child with a Thai women will arrange for a double nationality for the child, which will give more possibilities for the future of the child as well.
A selective group of foreign men, for example on certain dating sites, are sincere and serious to have a relationship with a Thai lady.
Age also matters in this respect: mature men, older than 40 years, are generally more serious and more ready for commitment than younger guys, who tend to be more into flirting or dating several women at the same time.
Although some might disagree with this, sincerity is more common in some foreign cultures than in Thai society nowadays. Lying is more common-good and often necessary in Thai culture, but much less appreciated amongst friends and in business in some foreign cultures.
Foreigners are often more financially secure than Thai guys, especially more mature men.
This is because they focused more on working and they worked long enough to make a career, now what is lacking in their life is a good woman.
Of course, every person and every personality is different and there are also foreigners who are not so trustworthy or who have bad habits. That’s why it is important to be selective, to filter out the 'good guys' from the 'bad guys'.
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This information has been compiled and written by QpidConnections and is targeted at a Thai female audience.
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 | Bran Posted on June 11, 2020 at 16:25:56 Are Thai men really so bad. It's just that Thai girls have a choice now. Who says Thai women are faithful. They can be same as Thai men as written in this article |
| Ashok Posted on June 11, 2020 at 16:23:51 Above all when we say foreigners, it is White Skin. Does not include brown or black. Even if you offer all what white man can offer, still White wins. White is god and God is white. |
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